This is a Southland Certified Ad Maturing as a Life Group.

One way to describe the development of a Life Group is the “Form, Storm, Norm, and Perform” model proposed by Bruce Tuckman:

Forming – People are beginning to get to know one another. Peculiarities and irritation are often overlooked or ignored to keep peace. This important stage builds trust which is critical for moving toward growth as a group.

Storming – Eventually people tire of pretending and real issues can be addressed. These issues could vary from relational tension to problems with structure. This stage can be unpleasant, but is essential for group growth. Trust is solidified when a group pushes through this stage speaking truth and demonstrating commitment to one another.

Norming – A type of “normal” emerges for the community. Group members take more responsibility. Groupthink can come into play as members get comfortable doing things one way all the time and no ripples emerge. There is an easy transition back into storming once this happens.

Performing – Group becomes more interdependent. Conflict is present but is resolved in a healthy manner. The group is motivated, knowledgeable, and cares for the needs of one another and others.

In which stage is your Life Group currently living?
Has your group repeated any of the cycles?
How might you all move to the next stage?

Need help or suggestions to prompt movement? Email lifegroups@southlandchristian.org for more!